4/11/17

Helping Kids Push Past Boredom

The other day it was hot and my kids got bored, a glimpse of summer :) They were begging to watch YouTube and play on the the iPad (uggh!).

This got me thinking...about summer and the endless hours of free time at home while the baby will be (hopefully) napping.
 
On one hand, I'm all for kids being bored. But I do think it's too much to ask them to "figure it out" for hours on end. Setting a little inspiration before them can go a long, long way. This is sort of a recent revelation for me.

As my kids get older, they have more of their own agendas and expectations. I'm learning that those agendas need to be carefully managed. I need to lead them, guide them, provide ideas for them - "run" their life so they don't run mine.

Serve them strawberries so they don't raid the freezer for ice cream, literally and metaphorically. 

This takes energy and planning on the part of the parent. It's hard.


When they were full of complaints on this particular Sunday afternoon, I pulled out a new pack of beads and some Legos. I held firm. No YouTube. No iPad.


They got lost in their creations.


 


As I prepare for the summer, I'm filing away ideas of things to do. Simple things. But I have a feeling that my attitude is my biggest challenge.



Thoughts?
Can y'all relate? 
What supplies/materials do you provide for your kids to keep them busy? 

5 comments:

  1. ha, I feel your pain! I try to structure the days a little bit - mornings in the summer are for their chores: folding laundry, practicing piano, and one job that I assign based on things that need to be done around the house. We go to the library one morning a week. I try to take them to the pool or on a playdate at least once a week. We offer to send them to camp - Ben is doing it, Genevieve is not a fan, so I reminded her that she will be home a lot this summer.
    When my kids say they're bored, I remind them that during the school year they long for free time. I also tell them that it gives their brain space for new ideas. Oops - gotta dash -

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  2. I'm a big fan of weekly library trips. In your case, having a toddler, a trip to the library might be more trouble than it's worth, but do try to keep the library basket full of fresh and interesting books. We always have "reading hour" on summer days, usually after lunch. This has looked different over the years as my children have gotten older and grown in their ability to read. I am a huge believer in reading chapter books aloud to children, even to older children, so we do that some days. Other days everyone reads independently or I'll read with one or two while that other(s) read on their own. If I need space and quiet then I send everyone off to separate rooms to read or play independently. Last summer I challenged my boys, then ages 10 and 13, to read a book a week and they rose to the challenge! So there's my take on summer reading. I think you're right about our attitudes being the biggest challenge when it comes to handling summer boredom yet also intentionally equipping ourselves to guide our children through it. I like Margo's loose structure. Summer is a great time to work on home-life skills (cooking, cleaning, laundry) at an age appropriate level.

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  3. Loved this post and reading the comments of others' ideas! My oldest is in Kindergarten & our youngest is a baby who will (hopefully) be napping this summer too--thank you for the inspiration!

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  4. Two 'rainy day' boxes. One with puzzles. One with craft supplies. These were in addition to the regular toys and only came out on rainy days, in my case. SJ in Vancouver BC

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  5. I love this post! So many of these thoughts were going through my head yesterday, our first truly hot day of the season, when my kids and attitude were spiraling out of control. I need to get prepared for summer! I struggled with entertaining a toddler while the baby napped last summer, but this summer they're both on the same schedule and I need to brainstorm ideas that both girls can do, since they always want to be doing the same thing. So fine-motor things like perler beads are out. I'm thinking this is going to look like lots of outings for us, but the germaphobe in me is going to have a hard time with that, so I need to think of some at-home ideas too. Arts and crafts usually make me want to cry :/

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